When you look at them and your heart – it’s like your heart takes all the pain and all the love for them that you have.” She stated: “If you don’t have children now, when you have them you will have these moments. Loraine,89, talked about accepting both the joy and the pain children can bring. In an earlier post, one of the Legacy Project elders shared her mixed feelings about having children. The book is filled with compelling stories, concrete advice, and strategies and tips for healing family rifts. For my book, Fault Lines: Fractured Families and How to Mend Them, I interviewed hundreds of people in estrangements, including those who have successfully reconciled. I’m excited to be able to offer an brand new resource. Many people who have come to this page are looking for answers to the problem of family estrangement.
